I don't really know what this thread is about and I also don't know all the scientific terms for different syndromes and disorders.
What I do know however is that I myself am social incompetent, by which I mean that I don't instinctively know how do deal with other humans, often behave in a way that hurts others and don't feel compassion. But still I am trying my best to make others happy, even though I usually fail. I don't want to make them happy because I would suffer from bad conscience or compassion, in fact I could be evil without feeling guilty, but I care for everyone, because the value of an emotion doesn't change depending on who has that emotion. my joy isn't better than other people's joy, therefore I try gaining the most happiness for everyone and not only for myself. On the other hand my mother, who works in jail, told me that most prisoners are very nice, even the murderers. Social competence has nothing to do with being a good human.
If this doesn't fit the topic, I am sorry. didn't mean to bother you.
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