I would think it's really a matter of personality. Are you open about it, or are you not so open about it?
The only problems people usually have come when they're at the logical extremes (prostitutes and priests).
Personally, on here I am open about my closed sexuality. I am a straight male 20 year old virgin. As a societal introvert, I personally want a relationship first. I just can't see myself screwing someone that I don't really like. I find it uncomfortable to be that intimate with someone I don't know that well, and I've been hurt by girls before. I know how everything works, so now it's just about finding someone I feel comfortable with without being inebriated enough to do something that I would consider a mistake while sober.
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