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Originally Posted by Ishikawa Oshro
Should it be when your mature enough to handle it? Who's to say your ever to become mature enough to handle the responsibilities of sex. What's to say what mature is? There is nothing "mature" about the act of having sex. It's usually not pretty unless it's staged (as in a porno). Sex is an animalistic nature. It's main purpose is to breed. Why it feels amazing is beyond me. That's just asking for trouble. Why would u make breeding a double edged sword? I mean if it hurt both parties to have sex but must be done to have a kid i'm quite sure you'd see less people jumping into each others beds. but the fact of the matter is for some reason it's one of the greatest feelings in the world.
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Maturity is more of a social buzzword than a psychological or biological one. Because maturity is defined in a social way, any psychological state a person would have to be in would therefore be defined socially. There is a biological fact that brains aren't fully developed until a certain point, and therefore maturity is slightly biological, but again, maturity is defined socially, not biologically or psychologically. Maturity depends on where and when you are, and that's a fact.
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Point being. Anyone could give any number of reasons why not to have sex at this age and that age and vice versa. I don't think anyone is really qualified to say when someone is ready to have sex or not tbh. Just think about it. Doesn't take much thought really. Either your religious or your not. either you think sex is sacred or you don't. Either you enjoy having sex not really caring who the partner is as long as they look good or you don't. Just know what can come of unsafe sex. And from there it's YOUR choice.
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Just avoid rape if you're in a society that frowns on rape or have philosophical beliefs that...
You know what? Just don't rape someone, ever.
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This is where the "talk" came from. Parents knowing there's not much they can do for their children other than prepare them for what is to come. Let them know that their body is changing and a new need will be surfaced. A need that can be suppressed or unleashed. A need that if taken care of with the utmost care rewards a young person or will be the lead to a hard future.
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Yep, social, social. The hard future is social. After all, a single male cat could impregnate hundreds of cats and be strong and healthy.
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Now as for all you "morale" people out there. I just gotta say this right now. No one is above sex (unless of course one of your functions is not working properly). It's human nature have sex. Like seriously when you see a very attractive female/male in front of you, I highly doubt you think to yourself "well *insert name here* that there woman is quite the delicacy. I'd quite enjoy taking her out to dinner and perhaps rubbing her feet all night long. And then possibly going for a walk along the sandy beaches. Then possibly eloping somewhere overseas" NO you say to yourself "man i'd love to get into their pants or see them with their shirt off". That's the normal human thought's going off in the head of a normal human being who comes across a attracting person.
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I knew it. I'm weird. T_T
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If your religious then I understand the whole waiting thing. It's a biblical command and as such you adhere to it. But even in the bible in the old testament. they were being married at the age's of 14 and such. That's just about the age where puberty kicks in. And I highly doubt they simply married and never knew one another.
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It's a social thing. Our society defines marriage at 14 as being immoral because we're unprepared because our childhood is being extended. Probably for political reasons.