It's totally not a simple concrete answer. I had sex for the first time when I was far too young, which has resulted in me having a completely objective view of sex as an action if you will. Had lots of sex since then, but recently fell in love for the first time, and losing that was a lot worse. Point being, I was emotionally stable for sex from the get go if you will, but as soon as emotional attachment got involved it became a completely different story. People need to stop focusing on getting people ready for STI's and Pregnancy and start preparing people for heart break and rage control.
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